Let go of the "intention"

         Sometimes, it is just a common sentence that can't be importance, it will cause a lot of conjectures, and it will also turn around and disturb the mood. Let go of the carelessness, forget these little things that are not important, and focus on the things that have not yet been completed.
Other people's words, one action, one look will subconsciously think that others have seen through their own minds, or are testing themselves. Then spend a few hours to think about the sentence, the action, what the eyes mean, come up with several versions, and draw up several countermeasures before you can wait for the next action. However, after waiting for a long time, the other side has no movement, and will worry that this is the tranquility before the storm, and my heart is even more uneasy. When you are too scared, you will accidentally reveal clues and let others notice the difference.

        The so-called "speaker is unintentional, the listener is interested", many times they are too sensitive, thinking too much about others' actions. When you are carefully pondering the meaning behind other people's actions, others have long forgotten those, because it is just unconscious or arbitrarily done, there is no multi-layered meaning.

        Thinking too much is often a matter of asking for trouble and pushing yourself to the corner. Often focus on guessing other people's actions, not enough focus to complete the task, but to add more trouble to themselves. Let go of those unnecessary cares, don't let yourself be arrogant, don't worry about what others have to say, just manage yourself. Being alive is hard, and there is no need to make yourself more tired for others.